Thursday, February 27, 2014

Detailed and studied cross exam of witnesses, a rarity: HC

TNN | Feb 25, 2014, 01.26 AM IST

NAGPUR: Expressing concern over defence lawyers not making efforts to properly cross examine the witnesses, the Nagpur bench ofBombay High Court has tersely observed that "their detailed and studied cross examination has nowadays become a rarity".

The court's observations came while hearing plea of an Akola-based man who was convicted by the sessions court for allegedly killing his wife for dowry on May 14, 2008, at his residence. However, the high court lauded efforts taken by defence counsel DB Kate stating that he meticulously conducted cross examination and it resulted in creating a big doubt regarding the death. Subsequently, it helped petitioner D Thakre to get acquittal.

Since the husband was booked under Sections 498A, apart from 302 and 201 of IPC, the court made some interesting observations. "The explanation of the word 'cruelty' requires any willful conduct of such nature that is likely to drive the woman to commit suicide. Similarly, there could be harassment of the woman with a view to coerce her to meet any unlawful demand for any period or valuable security," a division bench comprising justice Bhushan Dharmadhikari and justice ZA Haq mentioned.

They pointed out that the requirement of provisions of Section 498A is missing in the present case. "There is no evidence on record to hold that the deceased was subjected to cruelty. Hence, on said count also the conviction of the appellant cannot be sustained," they ruled.

Deliberating on the Section 106 of the Evidence Act, the judges stated that the initial burden lied on the prosecution to first establish the presence of appellant at his residence just prior to the incident. "It is only after the prosecution succeeds in proving petitioner's presence at his residence prior to the incident that the burden would shift on him to explain this presence on the basis of last seen theory. We found that the prosecution has failed to discharge the initial burden of showing the petitioner's presence shortly prior to the incident," the judges said.

The judges added that the manner in which the investigation was conducted was also required to be looked into. "The investigating officer (IO) in his cross examination has admitted that though he recorded statements of various persons including neighbours, no independent witness was examined. Absence of corroborative evidence of any independent witness especially when their statements were recorded by the IO during investigations is a factor that can't be overlooked," the court stated while setting aside petitioner's conviction and absolving him of all charges.

http://timesofindia.indiatimes.com/city/nagpur/Detailed-and-studied-cross-exam-of-witnesses-a-rarity-HC/articleshow/30960379.cms

Married man gets 3 yrs rigorous imprisonment for illegitimate relations with wife of an associate

Press Trust of India
Feb 26, 2014 at 08:45pm IST
A married man was sentenced to three years rigorous imprisonment by a local court on Wednesday for having illegitimate relations with the wife of an associate.
Metropolitan Magistrate (II) Raina Sharma, who found Rajendra Karnani guilty under section 497 (adultery) of IPC, termed the convict's actions contrary to Indian values and culture and also slapped a fine of Rs 10000 on him. In the order, the court said that the relationship of a husband and wife is based on trust and fidelity is its essence.
"This kind of immorality and characterless behaviour is detrimental to the very essence of the Indian culture and morality and deserves rigorous punishment," it said. Counsel H M Saraswat alleged that Karnani used to visit the home of his client Babulal frequently for some religious rituals, following which his family had a good bonding with him.
Married man gets 3 yrs rigorous imprisonment for illegitimate relations with wife of an associate

Married man gets 3-yr rigorous imprisonment for illegitimate relations with wife of an associate

"Due to his trust on him, the petitioner would often send his wife and children with Karnani for routine work.  Taking advantage of this, Karnani entered into physical relations with his wife and betrayed his trust," Saraswat contended. Karnani's counsel, however, denied the charge and his wife too deposed in his favour in the court.
"The petitioner himself would beat up his wife very often and also had a tiff with Karnani over a piece of land" because of which he had levelled the allegation of adultery, the counsel alleged. But Metropolitan Magistrate Sharma was not convinced and convicted Karnani.

Suspecting infidelity, man hacks wife to death

TNN | Feb 27, 2014, 11.24 AM IST

BHOPAL: Suspecting infidelity, a man hacked his 25-year-old wife to death in presence of his two kids near village Kajlikheda in Bhopal district late on Tuesday.

A case was registered at Kolar police station. The accused was taken into custody and an axe, which was used in the crime, was also seized from the spot.

Police said the accused Antar Singh, 30, resided at a farmhouse here with his wife Anita, 25, two kids and his mother-in-law. The family shifted from Narsingarh, a few months ago. Singh told police that his wife had developed extra marital affair with a labourer.

The accused would often scuffle with his wife over the issue. On the fateful day, the duo picked up a fight again, but situation turned ugly by midnight and the accused used an axe to kill her.

Later, her mother Sushila, rushed to local villagers who called the police. And when the police reached the spot, the woman was found lying dead in a pool of blood.

Singh worked as a caretaker and labourer in the farmhouse. Police said apart from his mother-in-law, his kids would also be made witness in the case as they saw their mother's murder.

http://timesofindia.indiatimes.com/city/bhopal/Suspecting-infidelity-man-hacks-wife-to-death/articleshow/31090100.cms

Man shoots wife’s lover dead in Dharmapuri

V Senthilkumaran,TNN | Feb 26, 2014, 11.29 PM IST

DHARMAPURI: A 23-year-old man was shot dead by his lover's husband near Harur inDharmapuri district on Tuesday night.

The deceased had been identified as K Chennakrishnan, from Karappadi village in Dharmapuri district. He was a worker in Sivakumar's farmland in Keeraipatti Vazhai Thottam near Harur.

Sivakumar had married Deepa (23) who hailed from Yercaud in Salem district, seven years ago. They have a five-year-old son. Deepa was allegedly having an affair with Chennakrishnan, said Harur police.

At 10pm on Tuesday night, Sivakumar left home while Chennakrishnan came to the house at 11pm. When Sivakumar returned home, he found his wife with Chennakrishnan and immediately attacked him, police said. Sivakumar took a country made gun and shot Chennakrishnan killing him on the spot.

At 5am on Wednesday, Sivakumar surrendered before Harur police. The police arrested him based on his confession. They also seized the country made gun from his house and removed Chennakrishnan's body.

Meanwhile, Deepa consumed sleeping pills and fell unconscious. Relatives and neighbours rushed her to Dharmapuri Government Medical College Hospital. Doctors who examined her said that her condition was stable.

"When we inquired about the gun, he said his grandfather had had this gun for several decades without a government licence and after his death, Sivakumar had been using it for hunting," the police added.

A case was registered and further investigations were underway. The police arrested Sivakumar and remanded him under judicial custody.

http://timesofindia.indiatimes.com/city/chennai/Man-shoots-wifes-lover-dead-in-Dharmapuri/articleshow/31059473.cms

Wednesday, February 26, 2014

Man stages fake kidnap of self to avoid unwanted marriage | Business Standard

Press Trust of India  |  Srinagar 

Last Updated at 16:47 IST


A man staged "fake" kidnapping of himself to avoid his marriage with a girl against his will in Pulwama district of Kashmir Valley, police said today.

Arshid Ahmad Margay, a resident of Qasbayar area of Pulwama, staged a "drama" of his abduction with the help of his brother Shameem Ahmad and four friends as he was engaged to a girl against his will, a police spokesman said here.

Shameem had lodged a report in Rajpora police station stating that during the intervening night of February 21 and 22, some unknown gunmen entered his house and abducted Arshid, the spokesman said.

During the course of investigation into the report, Arshid was traced from Wathoo village, and when questioned, it was found that he was engaged to a girl against his will, he said.

As per the plan, Arshid's brother and friends Ferooz Ahmad Mir, Fayaz Ahmad Shah, Javid Ahmad Dar and Ashiq Hussain Shah pretended to be militants and entered the house during the night and took him away in a vehicle.

Arshid was kept in Javid's house and an impression was made that the the girl, to whom he was engaged to, was having an affair with somebody else, who, with the help of unknown gunmen, had kidnapped him, the spokesman said.

Police is taking action under law against the persons involved in staging this "fake" abduction, he said.



Man stages fake kidnap of self to avoid unwanted marriage | Business Standard

Mathura: Grooms demand dowry during ceremony, spend their wedding night in jail


A wedding of two brothers with two sisters in Mathura ended with the two grooms cooling their heels behind bars after they clashed with the family of the girls demanding extra cash and articles in dowry.
Six persons from both sides were injured in the clash that followed the heated altercation. Police said a marriage party came from Hathras to Mant Mula village for the ceremony. As soon as they reached the venue of the wedding in Mathura on Monday night and saw the articles kept to be given as dowry, they created a ruckus and demanded extra cash and a motorcycle, police said on Wednesday.
"In spite of sufficient dowry, both the bridegrooms were demanding motorcycle and Rs 1 lakh cash. Since it was a question of marriage of my two daughters, we tried to persuade them. However, when they started damaging dowry articles, we were left with no option but to inform police and file a report against them," Satto, the mother of the girls said in the FIR.

Mathura: Grooms demand dowry during ceremony, spend their wedding night in jail

Grooms demand dowry during ceremony, spend their wedding night in jail

Six persons from both sides were injured in the clash that followed the heated altercation, police said.
The clash stopped when police came to the spot and arrested both the grooms Ravi and Ajit of Kursanda village of Hathras district.

http://ibnlive.in.com/news/grooms-demand-dowry-during-ceremony-spend-their-wedding-night-in-jail/454405-3-242.html
 

Things To Know Before An Arranged Marriage


Everyone in the world, regardless of cast and creed, wish to find their true love and soul mate.
 
Despite the many bitter experiences, there always remains within our hearts, a hope for a ‘happily ever after’.This usually involves the common rites of courtship and dating. You might begin by going on simple dinner dates or movie dates, slowly progressing your relationship till it hopefully leads to the altar and your ‘I do’.ADVERTISEMENTThere is another way to achieve the same results and that is through an arranged marriage. The term might seem a tad out of place in this modern age, but this custom is still practised in many cultures around the world like India and China.ALSO SEE: TOP
 
10 TIPS TO LIVE WITH IN-LAWSIn the past, an arranged marriage meant just that: the bride and groom had no say during the selection process of their future partner. They had to bow to the wishes of their parents and other elders of the family. Today, in many modern families the concept is a little different. The would-be brides and grooms are presented with a few choices to pick from.But for its success, there are many things to know before an arranged marriage. Here, we discuss a few tips that might help you if you have opted for an arranged marriage.
 
Age no bar? : Love comes in all sizes and ages too. But among the things to know before arranged marriage is that too much disparity in ages can lead to trouble. Choose a partner who is close to your own age group for better understanding.
 
Expectations: Here's an important arranged marriage tip: keep a moderate level of expectations. You are going to marry an ordinary person like yourself and not a Hollywood A-lister. Too much or too less expectations are best avoided.
 
Family status: Idealists will argue this point, but among practical things to know before an arranged marriage is that you would do well to choose a partner coming from a similar family background as yours.
 
Love him or like him? : This question will be difficult to answer before an arranged marriage. But keep an open mind and an honest conversation. Try to imagine that person as your spouse and understand your heart’s reaction.
 
Commitment: Marriages mean a commitment to the other person till death does you apart. One tips for a successful arranged marriage is the need for a strong commitment without any doubts for the relationship to succeed.
 
Peer advice: It is natural to feel apprehension when confronted an arranged marriage. Things to know before an arranged marriage include seeking advice from your peers who have had the same kind of marriage.
 
Background research: This is quite important among things to know before arranged marriage. After all, you are facing the biggest decision that determines the colour of your future. So, make sure to do a thorough background research of your prospective spouse.
 
Ability to adjust: This is the key to every successful relationship. You must be willing to adjust to your new partner, his or her likes and dislikes. It also means adjusting to a new family and their way of living. This is indeed the best tip you can follow in an arranged marriage.
 
Final decision: Important among things to know before an arranged marriage is that the final decision should be yours alone. You should choose a person not because your parents or friends think you must, but because you feel so.

Read more at: http://www.boldsky.com/relationship/marriage-and-beyond/2014/things-to-know-before-arranged-marriage-20140225164524.html

Secret to financially stable married life

Mohan Jayaraman | Feb 26, 2014, 06.38 AM IST

Being married involves having a shared vision about the future. Spouses should always plan their individual, as well as joint finances. If not appropriately planned, this could take a toll on the couple's financial health.

Married couples generally maintain two separate credit records and histories. Thus, both husband and wife should obtain their individual credit information reports (CIR) from a recognized credit information company and check their respective reports. Most married couples in India move from an individualistic credit outlook to a joint one post marriage. In such situations, it would be prudent to analyse both the individual CIRs and take a consolidated action on what is needed to make their financial situation better.

Maintaining a good credit score is easier said than done. A few simple steps can go a long way in keeping a check on your credit history.

Always pay as agreed

All repayments - and missed ones - are recorded on your CIR. Missed payments and high outstanding amounts negatively impact your credit history and credit score. Pay your EMIs and credit card dues on time and as agreed to the lender.

Joint and guarantor credit a/cs

Monitor your joint loans or loans where you are the guarantor regularly , since you are held equally liable for missed payments. Joint holder's negligence could affect your ability to access credit/loan when you need it. Also evaluate the possibility of moving an individual loan to a joint mode. In this way, both of them can avail additional tax benefits which in turn will result in family savings. Such opportunities also provide each partner to monitor the financial situation of the family and total outstanding.

Credit/loan applications

Inquiries made by lenders because of an application you made for credit or loan can affect your score. Too many inquiries might mean that you're taking on too much loan or that you're in some kind of financial trouble and are looking for credit to help you out. In most of the cases, it will be prudent to apply for the loan as joint holders rather than individual persons.

How to improve your score?

Recency of the occurrence of the default is considered by the lenders. As a result, though defaults may have some impact on your overall credit rating, it should not prevent you from availing of a new loan if your payment behavior subsequently has been regular across the loans and credit cards you hold. However, in case of couples, one of them having a better than expected score can compensate to having slightly poor score of the other. Such scores will be viewed complementary in case of joint liability when couples apply for a loan.

The credit score is impacted by a combination of both negative and positive events. Many banks allow customers to rebuild their credit record with a secured credit product and the credit card with a deposit securing it is an example. This is definitely a good means of rebuilding a good track record.

The writer is MD, Experian Credit Information Co of India 

http://timesofindia.indiatimes.com/business/personal-finance/Secret-to-financially-stable-married-life/articleshow/31019555.cms

 

Youth ends life after GF's parents turn down marriage proposal | Business Standard



Press Trust of India  |  Ghaziabad 

Last Updated at 05:45 IST


A 24-year-old youth allegedly committed suicide by shooting himself after his girlfriend's parents turned down his marriage proposal in Masuri area here this afternoon.

The deceased has been identified as Arshad. According to police, Arshad lived with his family in a rented accommodation in Dasna area where he fell in love with his landlord's daughter.

"Arshad wanted to marry the girl, but her parents didn't allow him. A month back, the girl's parents got to know about their relationship and asked him to vacate the house," said a senior police officer.

Arshad along with his family shifted to Pratap Vihar area in the district.Meanwhile, he tried to convince the girl's parents, but his attempts failed.

"On Tuesday afternoon, Arshad went to his girlfriend's house and again requested her mother to allow him to marry her daughter, but she rejected his proposal. He suddenly took out a pistol from his socks and shot himself," the officer said.

After the incident, locals rushed him to a nearby hospital where doctors declared him dead on arrival.

Police have recorded statements of both the families and further investigation is on, the officer added.

How to Find Your Financial Footing After a Divorce

S.B., Gawker Media





http://www.lifehacker.co.in/life/How-to-Find-Your-Financial-Footing-After-a-Divorce/articleshow/30963973.cms

Newlyweds welcome online marriage registration move

Richa ShuklaRicha Shukla,TNN | Feb 26, 2014, 12.00 AM IST

The news that e-mitra kiosk will now be authorised to issue marriage certificates to Jaipurites has gladdened many hearts
Newlyweds welcome online marriage registration move
Newlyweds welcome online marriage registration move


Cutting down the waiting time for issuing marriage certificate and making the registration process easier and simpler, the Jaipur district administration has come up with a new initiative. As per the new format, married couples can just walk into their nearest e-mitra kiosk to obtain a marriage certificate. Without wasting their time and energy in the marriage registrar's office, they can submit also their documents required as the proof of marriage, which will be further scanned and sent to the concerned authority in the district administration. After the verification of documents, couples will be assigned a date for registration and they will be issued a certificate. We spoke to a few newly married couples to know their take on this easy format...

This is easy for tech-savvy youth
"Surely, it will save a lot of time and energy. It sounds easier than waiting in long queues, which I really hate. Thankfully, the circular has been issued at the right time, since I will need the certificate soon," said a newly married Shobhita Sanyal. Since the process of bureaucratic paperwork is very taxing and tiring, the new age tech-savvy youth can just click and get the whole process done online.

Also, it will be completed in a definite period of time. The online registration process is applicable only for Indian couples and NRI couples will not get benefits of the scheme. Girls, who intend to go abroad along with their husbands after marriage, face problems in attaining a marriage certificate. "I will be applying for a UK visa, so that soon after marriage I can join my husband in London, who is working as a software professional there. This process will be helpful for me. It'd be fairly simple and easy for anyone of us to obtain a certificate now," says Mohita Asthana.

Old couples too want to register
Surprisingly, this has also clicked with those who have been happily married for years and never felt any need to acquire a certificate till now. Deepak Raizada and his wife Roshni, have been married for 17 years, and they now want to obtain a marriage certificate. They are happy to hear about the recent online procedure. "Though we never required the certificate and never thought about it, now we will apply since it's an online procedure. You never know, when you need one. I hope it will be enforced and regulated with immediate effect," said Deepak. "At least, we will be saved from bribing those corrupt babus," said Sujata Sharma, who wants to change her surname after her marriage. "I just need to visit the nearest kiosk once and will be assigned a date to submit the original documents. After furnishing few other details, I will have my certificate in my hands." But even now, there are also people who think Indian couples don't require their marriage to be registered to prove that they are married. "Basically it is required either for legal matters or if the couple needs a job or study visa. Otherwise it has no relevance."

http://timesofindia.indiatimes.com/life-style/relationships/man-woman/Newlyweds-welcome-online-marriage-registration-move/articleshow/30994847.cms

Tuesday, February 25, 2014

Wife, in-laws booked for abetting man's suicide




MOHALI: Two days after the decomposed body ofTarun Bhatia, 30, a native of Delhi, was recovered from his house in Zirakpur, the police booked his estranged wife and in-laws on the charge of abetment to suicide on Monday.

An FIR was registered against Selja and her parents, Laxman Dass and Monika Devi a?? residents of Kalka -- on the basis of a suicide note in which Bhatia wrote that the three were harassing him for their share in his property and that he had returned all the valuables they had given him during his weeding two years ago. The note was recovered from his rented accommodation.

The police said Tarun was a native of Dwarka in Delhi and working with a leading automobile agency at Phase I, Industrial Area, Chandigarh.

Inspector Ravinder Pal Singh, SHO of Zirakpur police station, said, "Before making arrests, the statements of the three will be recorded."

The body was handed over to his kin after a postmortem examination in Civil Hospital, Derabassi.

IAF pilot from UP commits suicide in TN after quarrel with his wife


A 32-year old Indian Air Force pilot attached to Sulur airbase near Coimbatore allegedly committed suicide in the Officer's Mess following reported quarrel with his wife whom he married just three months ago, police said on Monday.
Squadron Leader Abhishek Tripathi of Allahabad was found hanging from the ceiling of the mess in the IAF campus this morning.
Tripathi had reportedly picked up a quarrel with his wife over phone with regard to a property a couple of days ago and since then was found depressed. This was suspected to be the motive behind his extreme decision, police said.
IAF pilot from UP commits suicide in TN after quarrel with his wife

IAF pilot from UP commits suicide in TN after quarrel with his wife

Police registered a case and investigation was underway. The parents and wife of Abhishek were expected to reach Coimbatore by Tuesday, police said.
Air Force officials refused to comment on the incident.

Mystery around Sunanda death not laid to rest yet

Sumit Kumar Singh   |   Mail Today  |   New Delhi, February 25, 2014 | UPDATED 14:16 IST

 Sunanda Pushkar
Sunanda Pushkar
The death of Union minister Shashi Tharoor's wife Sunanda Pushkar is still shrouded in mystery with the investigators still probing whether it was a case of murder or suicide. Though the police said they haven't yet ruled out the murder angle, they said none of Sunanda's family members have come forward with any complaints against Tharoor.
"She consumed poison/medicines or was injected poison or was forcefully given some medicines is still a matter of probe," said a Delhi Police top officer. The officer added that they can't say anything concrete as to how she was poisoned as they are still waiting for the forensic and viscera reports.
Delhi Police Commissioner B.S. Bassi said the police were carrying out necessary inquiries. "The outcome will soon be submitted to the concerned quarters," the commissioner said on Monday.
Sunanda was found dead in a suite in Leela Palace hotel in Chanakyapuri area in Delhi. Two staff members and Tharoor himself were present in the suite when they found her body.
Investigators said Sunanda's last call from her mobile phone was to her son Shiv Menon. The investigators have also verified the call detail record of her phone and have questioned all the people who spoke to her during the last two days of her life. Police said they have found from the call records that she also spoke to Pakistani journalist Mehr Tarar.
Sources close to the case developments told Mail Today: "Delhi Police have got in touch with Tharoor after the first questioning during recording his statement. This is contrary to what is being speculated in a section of media that he's being quizzed by the police in the case…Police are probing on their own."
Regarding allegations being levelled against Tharoor by senior Bharatiya Janata Party leader Subramanian Swamy, a source told Mail Today, "It is best to ignore his despicable attempts."
The investigators said undoubtedly there were several injury marks across Sunanda's body and it was because of a physical fight with her husband. "They had got into a fight," said an investigator adding that the fight was over Pakistani journalist Mehr Tarar whom Sunanda had suspected of having an affair with her husband.
The post-mortem report also stated that there were over a dozen of injury marks across Sunanda's body but there were superficial in nature and not severe. The report also said Sunanda had minor bruises on her left cheek.

The post-mortem report also indicated that she died of poisoning. However, the police would be able to know the nature of the poison found in her body only after receiving the viscera report.
"It is too early to conclude anything as of now since the south district police is investigating all angles in this murder mystery," said a senior police officer, requesting anonymity.
The officer said Sunanda had starved herself for two days and was also consuming alcohol during her stay at the posh hotel. Revelations The autopsy report also stated that no food samples were found in her stomach, indicating that she hadn't eaten anything in the last two days. A panel of three AIIMS doctors also suggested that she had not been eating.
The sub-divisional magistrate (SDM) who recorded statements in the 'mysterious death' case had also ordered the Delhi police to investigate whether it was a case of homicide, suicide or accident.
"I have ordered the Delhi Police to further probe the mysterious death of Sunanda Pushkar as she is found to have died due to poisoning," Alok Sharma, the SDM of Vasant Vihar, said.
The police said three empty strips of Alprax (0.5mg) medicine, apart from other medicines, including botox antiaging injections, was found in her hotel room.
Swamy claims Sunanda given 'russian poison'
Giving a fresh twist to the Sunanda Pushkar case, senior BJP leader Subramanian Swamy on Monday claimed the wife of Union Minister Shashi Tharoor did not commit suicide and her death was a gruesome murder.
Subramanian Swamy
Subramanian Swamy
Swamy questioned Tharoor nervousness regarding his wife's death, even as the Delhi Police investigation in the highprofile case is still not complete. Sunanda was found dead in a posh Delhi hotel days after she was locked in a bitter Twitter row with Pakistani journalist Mehr Tarar.
"Why is Shashi Tharoor feeling so nervous? He should be one who should be standing up and say I want a complete inquiry to be done. Why did he get rushed through the cremation of his wife within a day? This is ridiculous. There are many things which are wrong with it," Swamy said, adding that Sunanda had horrific injuries above her belly and "her nostrils were squeezed to open her mouth to administer Russian poison."
Interestingly, this is not the first time that Swamy has spoken on Sunanda's private life. Earlier, Swamy had alleged that the Union Minister had misused his office to get his son out of prison in the UAE.
"What prompted a Union minister from Kerala to use his office to get his son out of jail in UAE? Due to narcotic trafficking charges," Swamy had tweeted in the first week of January this year. Tharoor had responded to Swamy's charges, saying the allegations were "a bigot's perverse political agenda".
The Delhi Police, on its part, has flatly rejected Swamy's claim that he had got the details about Sunanda's death through his "sources in Delhi Police''. "I can't comment on what grounds Mr Swamy is making these allegations when the probe is not yet complete,'' a Delhi Police officer said.
Shashi Tharoor(left) and Sunanda Pushkar
Shashi Tharoor(left) and wife Sunanda Pushkar.
Swamy claimed Tharoor wants to make his wife's death seems like a natural death but the post-mortem reports stated that it was unnatural death. "Why is Tharoor so keen to declare the case as death due to natural causes? We want to get to the bottom of the matter. What is the need to have no photos taken of her body? Whatever photos were taken was destroyed. The Delhi police probe is not moving forward.
Police sources told me in private that it is a gruesome murder," he claimed. The BJP leader also gave indication that when his party-led NDA comes to power at the Centre, he will "take the case to its conclusion.'' "I will have to file either a public interest litigation, or when there is a government that is more responsive to the public like Narendra Modi's government. At that time, I will take it up and see that it (the case) is brought to a conclusion," he said.


Read more at: http://indiatoday.intoday.in/story/sunanda-pushkar-death-shashi-tharoor-subramanian-swamy/1/345393.html

Paramour kills 4 of woman's in-laws

TNN | Feb 24, 2014, 02.53AM IST

EAST MIDNAPORE: A woman's paramour allegedly killed four of her in-laws in East Midnapore's Kalikakundu village very early on Sunday. Both the woman and her paramour have been arrested and are being questioned at Mahisadal police station. 

According to police, Jharna Kuila (24) and Jagannath Kuila (30) had been in an illicit relationship for about two years. Jagannath is Jharna's brother-in-law and lives next door. 

After the panchayat's intervention, the duo had reportedly been lying low for the past few months.

Jharna's husband works with a security agency and stays at home only three days a week. On Saturday, he was out on work. Around 12.30am on Sunday, Jharna's father-in-law Ram Prasad (72) found out that Jagannath had sneaked into Jharna's room. Infuriated, he knocked on the door repeatedly, shouting at Jagannath to leave the house at once. 

"At this, Jagannath came out and straightaway attacked Ram Prasad. The old man was butchered with a sharp weapon. Hearing his screams, his wife Niharibala (62) rushed out. She, too, was attacked," said a police source. 

Ram Prasad bled to death on the spot. Jagannath's next victim was the couple's younger son Arun (34), who suffered from night blindness, and Kalpana Manna (55), a relative who was a guest in the house. After stabbing them mercilessly, Jagannath fled. 

By then, villagers had been alerted and they called the police. Niharibala was the only victim alive when police came and she reportedly named Jagannath as the culprit. She succumbed to her injuries soon after. 

Jharna was arrested right then. On Sunday afternoon, police tracked down Jagannath near Mecheda railway station, around 40km away, with the help of his mobile tower location.

http://timesofindia.indiatimes.com/city/kolkata/Paramour-kills-4-of-womans-in-laws/articleshow/30920605.cms

United Kingdom: England Tops The League For Divorce Awards

Last Updated: 24 February 2014
Article by Claire Blackemore

English jurisdiction for divorce and financial claims can be worth fighting for as the difference in the level of financial award, depending upon where the claim is dealt with, can be vast. Disputes about which country should deal with a divorce and financial claims (known as forum disputes) are high-stake with international couples navigating through complex international, EU and domestic laws.
The facts of Mittal v Mittal [2013] EWCA Civ 1256 illustrate the allure of the glish Court to financially weaker parties even where they have only the slightest of links here and the lengths to which they will go to try to hold on to this most generous jurisdiction.
The case concerned a forum dispute between England and India. Both parties were Indian nationals and they had married in India. They moved to England in 2006 and separated in 2009. Neither of them had any assets or income in the UK. Following separation the husband started divorce proceedings in India in 2009 and the wife issued her petition in England in 2011 despite the existence of the husband's Petition and the fact that she had returned to live in India in 2010.
The question was whether the English court was permitted to stay (i.e. stop) the wife's English petition in favour of the husband's petition in India on the basis that India was the more appropriate and convenient jurisdiction (forum non-conveniens) or whether the decision in the European Court of Justice in Owusu v Jackson (281/02) [2005] QB 801 applied. If the Owusu case did apply that meant that if the English Court had jurisdiction it had no discretion to refuse to exercise its jurisdiction i.e. it was compelled to deal with the divorce and financial claim.
This point was argued in JKN v JCN [2010] in which Mark Harper acted for the wife. That case involved a dispute between England and New York. The court held that the English court retained the power to grant a stay on the basis, in that case, that New York was the more appropriate forum.
In Mittal v Mittal the Court of Appeal approved the decision in JKN v JCN and decided that Owusu did not apply to family cases on the basis that the Owusu case concerned a different convention regulating jurisdiction in a very different field of activity (Owusu related to a commercial dispute and not a family matter).
The result is that where the forum dispute in a family law case is between England and a non-EU country the English Family Court continues to have power to stay a divorce and financial claim made here in favour of another more appropriate or convenient jurisdiction elsewhere.
In forum disputes relating to EU countries (save for Denmark), the first in rule time continues to apply meaning that the first party to issue divorce proceedings will secure jurisdiction in their chosen country.
However, in either situation, securing a divorce in a foreign jurisdiction may only be a temporary fix. Where there are links to England a 'second bite of the cherry' may be possible by making a claim for a financial award after a foreign divorce under Part III of the Matrimonial and Family Proceedings Act 1984.
The lesson to be learnt? A clear road map is required to get clients into their jurisdiction of choice otherwise they could end up having proceedings in a country adverse to their interests and at great expense or loss.
The depth of experience in international family law cases and the contact network of the Withers family law team (with 11 fellows of the International Academy of Matrimonial Lawyers across our London and Hong Kong offices) makes us well-placed to assist on these complex multi-jurisdictional cases.
The content of this article is intended to provide a general guide to the subject matter. Specialist advice should be sought about your specific circumstances.

Woman kills mother with lover's help

TNN | Feb 22, 2014, 02.06 AM IST

BANGALORE: A 23-year-old divorcee and her lover allegedly strangled her mother to death at Byadarahalli, near Tavarekere, off Magadi Road. Though the woman's screams drew neighbours' attention, they could do little to save her as the house was locked from inside.

The incident occurred around 11am on Friday in the west Bangalore locality. Helpless neighbours witnessed the horror through the window as Chaitra and Sridhar strangled Gangambike, 45. "The onlookers locked the door from outside and alerted police," Ramanagaram district DySP NM Ramalaingappa said. The duo is in police custody and is being questioned.

http://timesofindia.indiatimes.com/city/bangalore/Woman-kills-mother-with-lovers-help/articleshow/30810991.cms?intenttarget=no

Refusal to have baby is cruelty: Family Court

Monday, February 24, 2014 - 06:00 IST | Place: Mumbai | Agency: DNA
Mustafa Plumber

Allows husband to divorce wife after she took contraceptive pills without his knowledge.

  • Prashant Chaugule DNA

It was a marriage of inconvenience which lasted just 11 months. She was obsessed with maintaining her figure and took contraceptive pills without her husband's knowledge while he was desperate to have a baby.
The family court recently allowed the divorce petition of the couple, saying if a woman does not want to conceive a child after marriage under the pretence of maintaining her figure and for that she takes anti-pregnancy pills without her husband's consent, it amounts to cruelty to the husband. It can be a ground for divorce, the court said.
The couple married in Kurla in May 2011 and lived together till March 2012 before the 25-year-old woman, a service professional, left her matrimonial house. In his petition seeking divorce, the 31-year-old man said: "Since marriage, the husband has experienced physical, mental and psychological stress and strain due to the depressing acts and activities of the respondent and her family members."
The family court held that the husband's allegations were true. "The petitioner (husband) has stated on oath that he wanted to have a baby. However, the respondent (wife) was more concerned with her figure and kept saying that she did not want to become a mother so early. She was taking anti-pregnancy pills without the consent of the petitioner. Believing the version of the petitioner, it is safe to hold that it was the unilateral decision of the respondent not to have a child and this behaviour also caused cruelty to the petitioner," the court said.
The husband, also a working professional, alleged that his wife suspected his character. "She used to make baseless allegations that he was having illicit relations with a girl and even check his mobile phone," the petition alleged. It further said that the woman used to give threats that she would harm herself and implicate the petitioner's family in a false case under section 498A of the Indian Penal Code. Fed up with the harassment and failed attempts at reconciliation, the husband moved court for divorce.
The court issued a notice to the woman, asking her to file her reply. However, she did not respond. The family court then passed an ex-parte divorce order.

Financially stable wife can’t claim maintenance: Bombay high court

, TNN | Feb 24, 2014, 01.46AM IST

MUMBAI: Only a wife with no sufficient source of permanent income can claim maintenance from her husband, the Bombay high court has ruled. A division bench of Justice Vijaya Kapse-Tahilramani and Justice P N Deshmukh rejected an application by an Andheri resident, Sheela Sharma (61), who had sought Rs 15,000 as monthly maintenance from her husband, Nitin Sharma, who is based in Australia. 

"It is a well-settled law that only a wife who has no sufficient permanent source of income can claim and get maintenance from her husband who has sufficient means," said the judges. The Sharmas have a son and daughter who are married and settled abroad. The couple has been living separately since 2007. 

The court pointed out that it had come in evidence that Sheela had invested Rs 50 lakh in fixed deposits and also made investments in mutual funds. She has also invested another Rs 2 lakh that she got from Nitin in a fixed deposit. She resides in a flat that she had bought with Nitin, who said she had exclusive possession of the house. This meant there was no rent to be paid. "It is seen that the wife is getting more than Rs 37,500 per month as interest. She has more than Rs 50 lakh in the bank. In addition, (her) son is providing money for her maintenance and other expenses. No one is dependent," said the judges. 

http://timesofindia.indiatimes.com/india/Financially-stable-wife-cant-claim-maintenance-Bombay-high-court/articleshow/30918626.cms

Working with masculinities - The Hindu

HARSH MANDER

The HinduGender equality will make the world kinder, less violent, and less demanding for men as well.

Gender equality will make the world kinder, less violent, and less demanding for men as well.

For the third year in a row, on Valentine’s Day when many celebrate romantic love, women and men in more than 160 countries around the world danced, sang and rallied for another kind of love — one based on safety, equality and respect for people of all genders. It is estimated that a billion girls and women face violence at some time or the other during their lives. A global call was therefore made for One Billion to rise, and it caught the imagination of people around the planet.
Last year, the focus of the campaign was to highlight the pervasiveness of many forms of gender violence, and this particularly resonated in an India wounded with the brutal gang-rape of a student in a bus in Delhi. This year the global demand was for justice for survivors. This symbolic global rising of people against violence unites survivors of violence, breaks down their sense of being alone, and heals the battering not just of their bodies but also their spirits.
It is often assumed that gender equality will make the world better, safer, happier and more dignified for girls and women. What is forgotten is that it will also make the world kinder, less violent, and less demanding for men as well. As Nancy Smith writes unforgettably:
For every woman who is tired of acting weak when she knows she is strong, there is a man who is tired of appearing strong when he feels vulnerable.
If the world is to evolve into a fairer and less threatening place for all people, women as well as men, it is imperative to work not just with women but also men, not just with girls but also boys. Many fine organisations today are working with masculinities, or the ways that men socially construct the idea of manhood. These include MASVAW (Men’s Action for Stopping Violence Against Women); Forum to Engage Men (FEM); the MenEngage Alliance; and SANAM (South Asian Network to Address Masculinities). They work with boys and men to help them introspect how their socialisation pressurises men to be strong, powerful and potent, and how a more gender-equal world will also set them free.
For every woman who is tired of being called “an emotional female”, there is a man who is denied the right to weep and to be gentle.

Patriarchy is a system of social organisation fundamentally organised around the idea of men’s superiority to women, while masculinity is the socially produced but embodied ways of being male. But what happens when men cannot make the grade of socially determined standards of masculinity? Not all men can suppress their soft natures, or be successful in earning money, competing against other men (and increasingly women) and supporting their families. Men can and do fail financially, socially and sexually, but they often lack the emotional resources to cope with these failures.
For every woman who is tired of being a sex object, there is a man who must worry about his potency.

Both the need to dominate and the inability to deal with failures lead men to be violent, and this is why violence across a large majority of cultures is an essential component of masculinity. Scholar Michael Kauffman observes that ‘the imperatives of manhood (as opposed to the simple certainties of biological maleness), seem to require constant vigilance and work, especially for younger men. The personal insecurities conferred by a failure to make the masculine grade, or simply, the threat of failure, is enough to propel many men, particularly when they are young, into a vortex of fear, isolation, anger, self-punishment, self-hatred, and aggression.’
For every woman who is called unfeminine when she competes, there is a man for whom competition is the only way to prove his masculinity.

It has been my consistent experience that only strong men can act with compassion and gentleness. It is weak and insecure men who are violent. Today, many more women are entering the labour market, but on unequal terms of much lower wages, greater exploitation, vulnerability to violence and denial of social protection. Even so, men feel threatened and confused, and violence helps them compensate for their 
insecurity and low self-esteem and to hold on to the ephemeral idea of power.

For every woman who is denied meaningful employment or equal pay, there is a man who must bear full financial responsibility for another human being.
Successful and powerful men, those wielding power of class, wealth, caste and race, use violence against women as an extension of their overall sense of entitlement. 

Men seek not only to dominate women but also other men. Suppressed and oppressed men learn socially to reclaim their manhood by violence to women. Violence against women is the last resort of defeated men.

Many women today have imbibed the spirit of equality, and are battling all odds to follow their hearts and achieve their potential, in homes as well as work-places. It is men who still need to learn much better to give up their sense of entitlement, privilege and power, and to recognise that in so doing they are also setting themselves free.

For every woman who takes a step toward her own liberation, there is a man who finds the way to freedom has been made a little easier.

Working with masculinities - The Hindu